The Private Last Dance
Your wedding day is going to be packed with spotlight dances, cake cutting, great food, toasts, trips to the bar, and dancing the night away with your favorite people on earth. But it’s also important to slow down and take a private moment just between the two of you to reflect on the wonderful occasion and soak in the moment away from the spotlight. Enter the private last dance. We’ve been recommending this option to couples for years and it seems it’s actually caught on as a trend. (Yes, we are totally saying Amplify couples are trendsetters!). Think it may be a good fit for your wedding? Read on!
Here’s how the private last dance works: After your “official” last dance (which can either be a banger of a tune and/or a slow song with everyone crowded around), the DJ thanks everyone for being a part of the wedding and directs them to line up for the send-off, noting that the couple will go into a private last dance and therefore needs everyone out of the room (except the DJ to play the song and the photographer/videographer to capture the moment). Your DJ should be polite but firm in directing guests to the exit (yes, it can take a few minutes to herd that many guests!). That way it’s truly a private moment. When our DJs play this song, we’ll often leave and let it play and/or clean up something — basically anything to make it even more private for the two of you. Sometimes couples don’t even want photographers/videographers there so it’s a 100% private moment (in which case the photographers/videographers and DJ will also leave the room/area and begin to coordinate and prep the send-off with the guests. From there, only you two remain on the dance floor for a special slow dance together to share thoughts, soak in the moment and prepare to wrap up an epic wedding reception.
When the song ends, the timing will be perfect with everyone and their sparklers (bubbles, streamers, glow sticks, etc.) lined up and ready to cheer you on for the grand exit! Amplify clients have loved their private last dance moments and we recommend you consider it for your wedding day as well!
When would a private last dance not be a good fit? It may not be as natural if you’re not transitioning into a send-off after the dance (either because you already did a faux send-off earlier or because you’re not doing a send-off) because then it would feel like you’re just sending guests away without a farewell (which may feel awkward to them and you). Whereas, even if you’re not having a send-off, ending the last dance in front of everyone and then wishing them farewell as they head out would not have the same awkwardness. Otherwise, if you like the idea of a private last dance and will be leading into a grand exit/send-off, then we think it may just be the perfect way to cap off a truly memorable evening!
The Perfect Songs for a Private Last Dance
Need help choosing the perfect song for your private last dance? We’ve got you covered! You’ll probably want a slow dance song likely similar to the type of song you chose for your first dance. In fact, a lot of couples we work with choose their second favorite first dance song for the private last dance! On that note, we’ve created a Spotify playlist with some great song options for you to listen and try out. Enjoy, and be sure to follow us on Spotify for more song ideas for your wedding!
Beyoncé – XO
This uplifting love song by Beyoncé celebrates love’s light and power. Its warm, affectionate lyrics and catchy melody create the perfect atmosphere for a romantic last dance.
Joji – SLOW DANCING IN THE DARK
This emotional and evocative ballad by Joji captures the intensity of a love that seems destined for heartbreak. The hauntingly beautiful lyrics and melody make it a poignant choice for a last dance since everyone remembers the first time they heard this song!
Cody Fry – Photograph
Cody Fry’s “Photograph” is a heartfelt love song that reflects on the importance of cherishing memories together. The song’s gentle melody and emotive lyrics make it an ideal choice for couples to reminisce on their special day.
Sleeping At Last – I’m Gonna Be (500 Miles)
This enchanting rendition of The Proclaimers’ classic hit is slowed down and imbued with tenderness. Its heartfelt lyrics and dreamy melody create a beautiful, intimate atmosphere while bringing back hints of the fun original.
Dan + Shay, Tori Kelly – Speechless (feat. Tori Kelly)
This romantic ballad by Dan + Shay and Tori Kelly captures the awe and wonder of finding true love. Its soaring melody and heartfelt lyrics make it a perfect song to celebrate your love.
Michael Bublé – Home
In this sentimental song, Michael Bublé expresses the yearning to be with the one you love, no matter where you are or high far you’ve climbed in fame and success. Its soothing melody and heartfelt lyrics create a cozy atmosphere for a private last dance.
Bruno Mars – Versace on the Floor
This passionate 90s RnB-style track by Bruno Mars showcases his smooth vocals and romantic lyrics. Its sensual rhythm and melody make it an ideal song for an intimate dance and it’s one of our favorite slow jams!
Johnnyswim – Take The World
This empowering love song by Johnnyswim celebrates the strength of love in overcoming any obstacle. Its anthemic melody and passionate lyrics make it a perfect choice for a tender private last dance.
John Mayer – Slow Dancing in a Burning Room
This bluesy and emotional ballad by John Mayer features heart-wrenching lyrics and a mesmerizing guitar melody. Its soulful sound and melancholic atmosphere create a deeply intimate mood in a way that only John Mayer knows how to accomplish.
Dermot Kennedy – An Evening I Will Not Forget / Furthest Thing
This medley of Dermot Kennedy’s “An Evening I Will Not Forget” and Drake’s “Furthest Thing” is a soulful and emotional ode to love. Its haunting melody and raw vocals create a powerful atmosphere for a last dance.
Sam Smith – How Will I Know
Sam Smith’s rendition of Whitney Houston’s classic song is stripped down and filled with heartfelt emotion. Its tender vocals and poignant lyrics create an intimate and touching atmosphere. You could even choose Whitney’s version for your last dance with everyone, followed up with this slowed down cover version.
Lee Brice – I Don’t Dance
This country ballad by Lee Brice is a heartfelt declaration of love and commitment. Its tender lyrics and warm melody make it a perfect choice for a romantic private last dance.
Lauv – I Like Me Better – Recorded at Spotify Studios NYC
In this acoustic version, Lauv’s soft vocals and gentle melody create an intimate and cozy atmosphere. Its sweet lyrics celebrate the transformative power of love.
Leon Bridges – Beyond
This soulful and romantic song by Leon Bridges captures the enchantment of discovering a deep connection with someone special. Its heartfelt lyrics speak of a love that goes beyond expectations, while its captivating melody transports listeners to a place of timeless romance. The combination of genuine emotion and soulful sounds creates a magical moment for a couple’s private last dance and is another one of our favorites here at Amplify!
John Legend – Conversations in the Dark
This tender and romantic ballad by John Legend celebrates the intimate moments shared between lovers. Its soothing melody and heartfelt lyrics make it an ideal choice for a private last dance.
Kina Grannis – Can’t Help Falling In Love
Kina Grannis’ delicate and enchanting rendition of Elvis Presley’s classic song captures the magic of falling in love. Its gentle melody and sincere lyrics create a lovely atmosphere for a last dance. There are many over cover’s of Can’t Help Falling Love (plus the original is awesome!), so you have many options to choose from here.
Bruno Mars, Anderson .Paak, Silk Sonic – Leave The Door Open
This smooth and seductive song by Silk Sonic is a fusion of RnB, soul, and funk that showcases the vocal talents of Bruno Mars and Anderson .Paak. Its sultry melody and romantic lyrics make it perfect for an intimate slow dance.
Eric Clapton – Wonderful Tonight
This timeless love song by Eric Clapton is a tender tribute to the beauty of a loved one. Its enchanting melody and heartfelt lyrics create a warm and intimate atmosphere. You can’t go wrong with this classic.
Taylor Swift, Shawn Mendes – Lover (Remix)
This romantic duet between Taylor Swift and Shawn Mendes adds a charming twist to the original “Lover.” Its sweet lyrics and harmonious melody make it a lovely choice for a last dance.
Thomas Rhett – Die A Happy Man
This heartfelt country ballad by Thomas Rhett is a touching ode to the simple joys of love. Its warm lyrics and tender melody create a cozy and intimate atmosphere.
Brightside – Goodnight World
This soothing and sentimental song by Brightside (from Tallahassee!) is perfect for winding down after an unforgettable day. Its calming melody and heartfelt lyrics create a serene atmosphere for a private last dance that builds up to a triumphant ending.
Al Green – Let’s Stay Together
This soulful and timeless classic by Al Green celebrates the enduring power of love. Its uplifting melody and passionate lyrics make it an ideal choice for a romantic last dance. Another one of our favorite slow jam tracks at Amplify, this song will forever be relevant and played at weddings!
Dashboard Confessional – Stolen – Re-Record
This emotional and heartfelt song by Dashboard Confessional captures the magic of falling in love. Its captivating melody and tender lyrics make it a perfect choice for a private last dance. If you listened to this one in high school or college, it will bring back the very best of memories and that time you saw Dashboard together live!
Brett Young – Change Your Name
This romantic country ballad by Brett Young is a sweet ode to the commitment of marriage. Its heartfelt lyrics and warm melody create a lovely atmosphere for a private last dance.
Sam Smith – Latch – Acoustic
Sam Smith’s acoustic version of “Latch” highlights the raw emotion and vulnerability in the song. Its tender vocals and intimate atmosphere make it perfect for a private last dance.
Amos Lee – Arms Of A Woman
This soulful and passionate song by Amos Lee is a heartfelt tribute to the love and support of a partner. Its warm melody and emotive lyrics create a deeply intimate atmosphere.
SafetySuit – Never Stop (Wedding Version)
This touching and romantic ballad by SafetySuit is a promise of unwavering love and devotion. Its gentle melody and heartfelt lyrics make it a beautiful choice for a last dance.
James Arthur – Say You Won’t Let Go
This emotional and tender love song by James Arthur is a powerful testament to the enduring power of love. Its poignant lyrics and soulful melody make it an ideal choice for a private last dance.
Frank Sinatra – The Way You Look Tonight
This timeless classic by Frank Sinatra is a charming and romantic ode to the beauty of a loved one. Its enchanting melody and heartwarming lyrics make it perfect for a private last dance. Another ultimate classic, you can never go wrong with Frank Sinatra!
Jason Aldean – You Make It Easy
This heartfelt country ballad by Jason Aldean celebrates the simplicity and joy of true love. Its warm lyrics and soothing melody create a comforting atmosphere that showcases the ease of being with the one you love. The song’s heartfelt message makes it an excellent choice for a last dance that highlights the beauty of a love that feels effortless.
Go Radio – Goodnight Moon
This enchanting and dreamy song by Go Radio (another band from Tallahassee!) is a poetic expression of love and devotion. Its captivating melody and tender lyrics create a magical atmosphere for a private last dance bringing back that classic book every one of us read and loved as a child!
Elvis Presley – Can’t Help Falling in Love
Yes, we had to include the original as well, because it is another song that will forever be relevant. This timeless classic by Elvis Presley beautifully captures the magic of falling in love. Its heartfelt lyrics and enchanting melody make it an ideal choice for a romantic last dance.
John Legend – Stay With You
This soulful and heartfelt ballad by John Legend is a touching testament to the power of love and commitment. Its tender melody and sincere lyrics create a warm and intimate atmosphere.
Taylor Ray Holbrook – Tie Me Down
This charming and upbeat country song by Taylor Ray Holbrook celebrates the joy of finding a love that lasts. Its catchy melody and heartfelt lyrics make it a perfect choice for a last dance.
Brad Paisley – Then
This emotional and heartfelt country ballad by Brad Paisley reflects on the journey of love and growth in a relationship. Its tender lyrics and captivating melody make it an ideal choice for a last dance.
Imaginary Future, Kina Grannis – I Will Spend My Whole Life Loving You
This delicate and enchanting duet by Imaginary Future and Kina Grannis is a beautiful promise of everlasting love. Its soothing melody and heartfelt lyrics create a lovely atmosphere for a private last dance.
John Mayer – Gravity
This soulful and reflective ballad by John Mayer is a poignant reminder of the power of love to anchor and ground us. Its emotive lyrics and mesmerizing melody make it a perfect choice for an intimate last dance. Again, John Mayer ftw.
Bobby Darin – Beyond the Sea
If you love crooner-era jazz and it’s not Frank Sinatra, it’s probably Dean Martin or Bobby Darin! This timeless and romantic classic by Bobby Darin is a testament to the power of love to bridge any distance. Its uplifting melody and enchanting lyrics create a magical atmosphere for a private last dance.
Nat King Cole – The Party’s Over
This sentimental and nostalgic classic by Nat King Cole is a beautiful way to end a memorable day. Its soothing melody and tender lyrics make it an ideal choice for a private last dance.
Ed Sheeran – Thinking Out Loud
You knew this one would make it on this list, right? And instant classic, this romantic and heartfelt ballad by Ed Sheeran is a touching testament to the enduring power of love. Its tender lyrics and captivating melody make it a perfect choice for a last dance.
Each of these songs offers something unique, whether it’s a tender ballad, a soulful classic, or an enchanting duet. With such a diverse selection, you are sure to find the perfect song to create an unforgettable private last dance at your wedding and end your night with a tender moment before going into your epic send-off! Here are all of the songs together in a playlist: